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*utterfly_13
writes:My boyfriend broke up with me last night on facebook and he wrote the following message to me:Um (my name)??? i have a problem real badly um three days ago I asked out(girls name)and she just now said yes Note: This was DURING our relationship.Then he wrote another message:i mean i love you but she likes me too and idk what to do anymore ughhhhhhhhhh im realllllllly sorry I have to do this but I think we should see other people for a while Later I found out he asked out at least one other girl too.I know I'm young, and I shouldn't worry about love and everything but still...He still wants to be friends with me.So my questions are:Do you think I should go out with him again if he asks?Should I still be friends with him?Or any feedback you can think of.THANK YOU!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010): He didn't let you down easy at all! Asking out other gilrs while you are meant to be exclusive is not what you call , a nice break up. In fact that is quite the opposite, he did it terribly, as if to say hey, if this other girl doesn't say yes will you take me back kind of thing! Wwhat a loser.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (22 June 2010):
Yes, you did. Keep men like that out of your life.
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reader, Butterfly_13 +, writes (22 June 2010):
Butterfly_13 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNow he's saying that "no wonder you never had any boyfriends before." (He was my first bf, but I had been asked out before once) Also he keeps on telling me that he let me down easy and blah blah blah. I blocked and deleted him and I never told him my phone # so hopefully... Do you think I did the right thing?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): He got mad at you shows he is guilty
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reader, Butterfly_13 +, writes (21 June 2010):
Butterfly_13 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI really appreciate your support. I copied and pasted the answers in a message along with the question and sent it to him. He got all mad and he is basically saying it was MY fault that we broke up. =( I'm waiting for his reply but I am going to do what all you people said. THANK YOU!!!
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reader, LuvDrunk +, writes (21 June 2010):
I'm pretty sure he wanted to break up with you but was probly to scared to. You've already done the relationship thing with this guy, move on...he has. You can always be friends but remember that it's over. He doesn't deserve your friendship but it's your choice to let him in again.
There are a lot of nice guys out there so move on and find one.
Peace Love and Happiness
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (21 June 2010):
 Ew, ew, ew!!! Don't give this guy the time of day, what a scumbag!! You deserve way better than this. Kick him to the curb with the rest of the trash, any guy who goes around asking out chicks while supposedly "committed" to you is not even close to worthy of your attention!!
Good luck, sweetness!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): Ffs no of course you shouldn't he had no respect for you! Asking out other girls while he's with you! What a dick!
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker +, writes (21 June 2010):
 He sounds like he has the intellect of a particularly dim-witted species of pigeon. If you are halfway intelligent, please don't entertain this idiot any more.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 June 2010):
NO!!! Come on, while he was with you he asked TWO other girls out. That's basically cheating. And then he has the nerve to want to remain friends? This guy is as low as they come. He has no idea about relationships, no idea about women and doesn't care about your feelings in the slightest. You'd be mad to have this guy back. Let him go, and don't even bother being friends with him.
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