I know I should let sleeping dogs lie, but why was my husband sweet talking other girls in the beginning?

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Silly id be asking now but, its a question about my past i ocasionally find my self thinking about when i first started dateing my husband. He had a dirty habit of sweet talkin girls. He would have me on the phone and like as if i wasint there he would tell them how perty they are even went far enough to say if i wasint dateing u i would be with her. It was the same day he disregarded my feelings and went to a club and danced and did god knows what with a girl he worked with. That was the day i snaped and told him to just forget about me and him that it was over! He told me that all he did was dance with her and said i didnt know danceing was cheeting! And about him sweet talkin girls he saw no wrong in it i was dumb founded by what he was saying. I gave him 1month to change or it was bye bye to me. He quit his job got a new job with all male employees, cut off all ties to all the friends of his who were girls. He changed in a blink of an eye but, what i want to know is what made him act like how he acted in the start i know i should let sleeping dogs lie but im just really curious y it happnd.

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