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*isbabygirl22
writes:well me and my boyfriend had sex for the first time and it was okay but he is kinda taller than me and kinda bigger than me and he is a good guy but my question is How do u make sex better the second time because i get horny around him and its hard not to want to do it but i tolerate it though.. How do u get better at sex???? is there a way or is it going to be that way each time???should i be on top would that make it better or not??? im confused an concerned Please help thanks
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reader, brooklynqueen +, writes (18 July 2010):
There are plenty of books and tapes regarding the subject maybe you should invest in them. You can find books on sex at barnes and nobel, on line and even at the library.
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reader, Madalo 1  +, writes (21 June 2010):
COMMUNICATION!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 June 2010):
Practice, practice and more practice. You get better by doing it more, by listening to each other and by experimenting. Have fun.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (21 June 2010):
 I did not get what went wrong the first time.
You talk about his height but I don't know that height difference may be a problem ( I am 5'3" and my parners have all beeen 6' and more, and that was never a problem).
Anyway in general what you need to do is practice,practice,practice :) And don't be shy, tell him exactly what works for you and what not and ask him the same. You are exploring together- communication is important.
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reader, Spades  +, writes (21 June 2010):
 Contrary to popular belief, you can learn a lot from pornography. Don't believe everything you see mind you, but as far as positions, techniques, etc.
There are also a lot of books or articles online that could be helpful.
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reader, Spades +, writes (21 June 2010):
Practice makes perfect. The more you do it, the better you will become. Don't be afraid to experiment. Learn what works for the both of you.
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