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writes:I was at the bar and I got really messed up. I ended up making out with 2 guys (I can't remember making out with one of them, my friend told me about it) and i have a boyfriend who i have never even come close to cheating on before, so this was completely out of charactor for me. Then the rest of the night I cant remember. I threw up and I couldn't walk and I was blacking out. ( My friends had to carry me) and i don't remember. Could I have been roofied or givin GHB or some other date rape drug? I did have a lot to drink but i don't think it was anything more than i usually drink. It sort of sounds like i may have had my drink spiked but I don't know if im being sort of biased in saying that cause im almost hoping i was as it explains my acts of infidelity. I had all the symptoms of it though but i don't want to believe I was to make myself feel better abour it, I really want an honest opinion of whether you think I was or not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe club I was at has never had a reputation for being one with a bunch of creeps and cases of people getting their drinks spiked but there may have been one or two incidents in the past. In my opinion i would think its the bar with the lowest risk for that but i guess it could happen anywhere. I was drinking beer out of a bottle but i was offered a shot.. So i really don't know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): My friend who had her drink her spiked now rejects alcohol involuntarily. Yeah seriously it's a determining factor whether it's a club that people are likely to spike your drinks in?! Please answer!!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 June 2010):
I'm with Cerebus. It doesn't sound like your drink was spiked, though there is a possibility of course. The date rape drug renders you unconscious for some time. You sound as if you were just very drunk and made some bad mistakes. I think you need to make sure you're eating enough before going out, and perhaps watching your drinking. Also, check your stress levels, and look at your relationship carefully. It just sounds like you were drunk to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah its just weird cause ive never been able to not remember before. Sure there were times when it has been a little hazy but this was a solid amount of time that i have no recollection of. I also still feel sick two days later... Is that normal? Can that happen from just alcohol?
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): It doesn't sound like you were spiked, being spiked with the drugs you are talking about would have left you unconscious, you were conscious aware and doing things by your own free will.
It's more likely that you just got too drunk, there could be many factors that would lower your tolerance to the degree that your normal amount would have a bigger impact.
Did you have enough to eat. Did you have stuff on your mind. Where you stressed by anything, did you drink too quickly, or were you doing any kind of strenuous activity that day, or tired from work.
There are many factors involved in the effect alcohol can have on you. It sounds to me like you just got messy drunk. It happens to everyone that drinks regularly at some time.
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reader, inkorswim +, writes (21 June 2010):
Had you eaten much that day? The drunkest and sickest ive ever been (similar symptoms to yours) was when I had about 4 bottles of mickeys hand grenades. (really tiny bottles of beer) and the results of that night were disastrous, simply because I hadn't eaten a proper meal that day. I cant imagine someone spiking your drink just to make out with you, however. If anyone had tried to spike your drink, it was probably a failed attempt to take advantage of you, since it seems that your friends were keeping somewhat of a close eye on you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): It depends on what type of club you're in really. Was it in a bottle or a glass, glasses seem
like they'd be easier to spike, and do you know if the guys were a bit creepy or anyone else who has had there drink spiked in that club, is it common in there?
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