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writes:I'm 21 year old female and I'm stupid in love with my also female boss, My first though when I get up in the morning is for her, the same goes when I go to bed.At first it wasn't so bad to work with her and work around my feelings, but now, but as time has passed and we have built a relationship is painfully obvious that there's more between us, and neither of us knows what to do about it....I love her, so should I just make it know and ask her out or wait for her to make the first move..... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): the move is your and also you are the one with everything to lose. you need to be very sure she feels the same before you risk everything. good luck, mal
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reader, YouWish +, writes (21 June 2010):
 Here's the thing. Since it's you and your boss, it's YOU that has to make the *very* definitive first move. She can't make a move on you for legal reasons (i.e. sexual harrassment laws).
If you're interested in her, and she's also gay and interested in you, the whole thing rests squarely on your shoulders. You will have to take the risk and talk to her. Mind you, not only do you face the risk of rejection in case you misread her, but your job is on the table too.
Just remember, she WILL NOT and CAN NOT make the first move.
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reader, Sweet-thing  +, writes (21 June 2010):
 Make your move, just know if it goes sour it could cost you your job and your self respect. Then again, she might be "the one".
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