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writes:Hi, well me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months now. im 16 and he is 19. we have had sex four times. but we hang out almost every day and he alwaaaaays tries to start it. i usually let him touch a bit and then just say stop but it always takes a lot for me to get him to actually stop. i have to keep repeating myself and pushing him away before he will stop touching me or pulling me closer to him. i dont mind having sex with him sometimes or just touching a bit and being snuggly, but he always wants more and if i dont let him continue he is upset and feels i "never let him finish" or im a "tease". we have a great relationship from all other aspects and everyone says we are so great together. he treats me like a princess but i never ever ask him to spend money on me, i try to pay for myself but he refuses. also, he says that his last relationship was very sexual so he has to "get used to being with someone who isnt". he says he has slept with 22 girls. is this relationship healthy or bound to break up?? thanks!
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reader, *brea//babbby. +, writes (22 June 2010):
 Ick, 22? Maybe you should have him tested.
I have the exact same problem with my boyfriend except for he has only had sex with one other person and has never been a sex adict before. I also don't know what to do because he is positive we are going to be married in a few years.
Try to do activities other than watching movies or being alone in his room or yours. Entertain him with a hobby or going places so that he doesn't have the time or opportunity to think about sex.
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (22 June 2010):
What a lying dog he makes a statement about his Ex about use too getting it and not getting it now is because he is trying to make you feel bad and scared of losing him so you will give in honey, i hope one day you will look back at this and just feel stupid because you need to grow up but not just yet! you are a child enjoy yourself now before it's to late w/ a child on each hip or some diease you can get. and i know what iam saying to you, you can care less but want our opinion well we all have been there? and take it from us who have!!!! either way you give in or you don't he's going bye bye!! and honey that is a true fact. and for him to call you a tease he's right you don't make out and exspect a guy to say thats ok. one day you are going to get raped and believe me when i say this please be careful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys! i dont want to leave him but im not sure if im ready for an extremely sexual relationship yet.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): Well 22 is possible but idk if u really want a guy who has been around that much ...its all up to u but dont tease and then push him away u both will end up getting annoyed.
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reader, BunnyTee +, writes (21 June 2010):
 22 girls and he's 19? That just doesn't have the ring of truth to me, sweetheart. I suppose anything is possible, though. One thing is for certain: 19 yro old boys are nothing but a walking study in raging hormones. It goes with the territory. This is why he'll always pester you for sex. It's all they think about, like every 15-20 seconds.
It's never right to "tease" So, if you do, stop it. I think you're just dealing with the territory. It's part of navigating your way through to adulthood. You can try to ask him not to pressure you so much, saying it makes you feel very uncomfortable and somewhat used, tried that?
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reader, lookscankill555 +, writes (21 June 2010):
 i think sooner or later u gonna start to get soo annoyed with him u r gonna wanna break up. If he keeps tryin to have sex with u all the time and is tryin to do more then touching all the time you are goin to get annoyed more and more. He could be lieing about havein sex with 22 girls. He could have just said that because he wants to have sex with you. I think if yyou cant deal with him doing this anymore you should break up with him but its all up to ur own feelings
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