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writes:Hey, a few weeks ago I joined up on a sports team for the summer, just so i had something to do. I met this really cute and nice girl (i'll call her jenna). we really clicked; we had a long conversation and i completely fell for her. she's extremely gorgeous with long brown hair, green eyes and a light tan; i just lost it. It makes my insides hurt to think about her, and im really nervous to ask her out. i keep having these fantasies about "us" and sometimes it scares me what i want from her. im just afraid that if i actually get a chance with her, ill mess it up and start pressuring her into doing what i fantasized about before shes ready. Reply to this Question
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reader, cupcakecuttie +, writes (21 June 2010):
Well these things can be tough. I recomend taking it slow. Get to know her a bit better and maybe ask her out on a few dates. Don't let your urges get in the way, cause you may end up loosing something really good. If you do get a chance with her, just wait until she's ready. Learn to control these thoughts. Like if your out with her and you feel you may do something you don't want, just try and get your mind on something else. Just be a real gentalmen to her, treat her well and she may be yours for the keeping.
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