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"We're on a break"

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Question - (21 June 2010) 2 Answers - (Newest, 21 June 2010)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

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I have been with my girlfriend for seven years, and they have been great, hard at times but good has always out weighed the bad. Recently ww had a talk about her being unhappy and wantinf a break. Last week we decided to go along with her idea and step away from our relationship for a little while. We have reassured eachother that it is not over, which is a little comforting.

I have not had any contact with her in a week. We have never gone through this before and are a little confused how it should work. She is the type of girl who wants her time alone if she is upset and I've always respected that even though I always want to talk.

My question is should I wait for her to make first contact or could I. I have been so miserable and a mess because of this and I hate not talking to her. Thanks in advance!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010):

Is it okay for you & her to see other people during this break?

You'd better have this subject cleared up or somebody is liable to be hurt later.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (21 June 2010):

You're on a break, she wanted that break. So it's up to her to come to you. Wait for her.

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