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writes:I don't get it ?! Girls are not suppose ask a dude out but if it gets mii a date then I will but HOW? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): Some great advice from the other Aunts and Uncles there.
Just remember, there are no rules to dating this isn't the 1930's if you like someone then you ask them out, there are plenty of girls that do and might I add girls are far more successful at it too because it takes all the pressure off the guy to do all the work, trust me we guys just can't understand why in this age of gender equality most women are so reluctant to make the first move.
Believe me it's really great to meet girls that do.
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reader, Jeff8  +, writes (21 June 2010):
Keep things cool by making the first 'date' an invite to join a group activity involving something you think he'd enjoy (and that you enjoy as well). 'Some friends of mine are going bowling/clubbing/to a concert this Friday. Would you like to join us?' Makes it easier on you and if he says no (busy that night, etc) you have still managed to set things up for a 'next time'. Or he may say no and then return the favor himself once you've broken the ice. Some guys like to be the ones doing the asking but if there is any attraction to you at all he'll say yes to the group outing. If he does say no, go out with your friends and have a great time anyway to remind yourself of what he missed out on!
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reader, XxHinkaixX  +, writes (21 June 2010):
 Its not hard. But there are some things you need before asking someone out.
You need a good friendship with the guy.
You both need to trust each other.
And you both need to like each other in some way.
Dont just come right out and ask. Flirt with him a little first. Twirl your hair, bite you lip, the usual.
Find out what he likes...like sports, movies, swimming. Some good potential date ideas.
Then, ask him if he would like to do something with you later. (Try to make the activity you do, something you both enjoy...!)
If he rejects, move on and try again later.
If he does not...lucky you! :D
Good luck!
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