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writes:Well right now i feel so sad because me and my best friend used to talk every day on messenger cause she is in mexico and i came to the united states when i was 6 years old but i go every year. Well the problem is that since she meet a boy she started on ignoring me. Every time that i was connected on msn she would not answer my questions or she would take so long to answer me because she was talking to that boy and know she connects on it but she stays connected like for a second just to see if that boy is connected and if he is not she will disconnect and even if i am she wont care, she ignores me or if i tell her something she just takes like 10 minutes or more just to say oh cool or wait... i get so mad because she ignores me a lot and i miss all of those fun conversations we had. Now i am the one talking she just answers me by saying ooh cool or wait and the guy she likes has a girl friend and i already told her to not care so much about him cause he does not care so much of about her like she does...... and i dont know what to do to make her understand me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): Your friend has her head in the clouds over this boy and while it hurts, there is nothing you can do. Your fried likes the attention this guy gives her and doesn't want to lose it. This happens when friends get crushes. Just let her come to you. Try to branch out and talk to other friends. Give her some time and she'll come back to you.
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reader, ShelbyS01201  +, writes (21 June 2010):
 Like what YouWish explained, this sounds like her first real boyfriend. She is just caught up in the moment; I remember when i had my first boyfriend, the world seemed to fly by like the trees outside of a car window. Soon I got a grip and focused back into real life after the excitement died down. All she is is excited, and it's certainly going to pass!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (21 June 2010):
 Awww....this happens in real life too when a close friend gets a guy and then no one and nothing else matters. If she's the same age you are, she hasn't learned how to balance her life and this guy.
Don't take it personally. She doesn't like you any less, and since she is so young, I'm guessing that this relationship with this boy won't last forever, and she will soon be looking to you to comfort her and be there for her. Until then, I know it hurts that she's not talking to you like she used to, but that's just temporary.
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