A
female
age
30-35,
*s.yah_yah
writes:i think my girlfriend is cheating and does not really care bout me bcuz she changed from wen we first met. she doesnt call me really. she goes days sometimes she ignores my call. sometimes when were out ad people ask if we are together she says 'no were friends'. she dosnt let me see her phone texts and email. she locks her phone when were together. we dont see each other like that anymore. we dont really have sex offen and she has lots of other girls that like her that she hangs with. she told me once that she let someone give her oral sex. she lied to me about still seeing her ex girlfriend but when i tell her how i feel she says she's in love with me and there's no one else. but she has a problem with our age difference.i still feel the same cuz she lies about everything ans she even admitted she doesnt like commetment and thats what i want but i feel she is cheatin on me and that she doesnt think of me as her number one but i love her to life. i just want us to be together before its to late.what should i do?
View related questions:
ex girlfriend, her ex, oral sex, she lies, text Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, ctds001  +, writes (21 June 2010):
If you are not No 1 then that's the main reason for ending this relationship.
The lying is very disrespectful also.
Finish with her and find someone on your maturity level who is as committed as you are.
Good luck x
A
male
reader, dyeruz +, writes (21 June 2010):
Errm how much clearer can she make it, what hint aren't you getting if she even says you're not together and are just friends..my guess is if you don't call for a while, she'll end up calling you asking why you're not calling. If somebody treats you like this then why be with them? look for someone whom will want to spend time with you and be with you. She maybe the love of your life to you but to her you appear to be an irritant who won't leave her alone. Respect yourself and find someone who deserves your beautiful feelings. Good luck!
...............................
A
male
reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 June 2010):
I think you should end it. If nothing else, there has been so much lying and she doesn't seem to be into you at all. I think you should just move on from her and find someone else who will actually care for you.
...............................
|
