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writes:So i have the guy, and he's practically perfect. He flirts with others, but Im willing to give it a chance..maybe. My friend who just recently broke up with him, still loves him. She wont talk to me anymore. At one point in time, she was my bestfriend, then we started drifting apart. I mean, before him and i started liking each other, we were really good friends. More than her and i were. So he's not just a guy, hes one of my closest friends. But I dont know who to choose. If I choose him, I probably will lose her. Even the we havent talked in a lonnnng time, I still love her like a sister. Just lately we've been drifting. And if I choose her, then I WILL lose my chance with him. And maaan, do i love him. So who do I choose? They're both my friends. But I like him more than a friend..and she's been getting mad at me for stupid things. Any advice? Which one should I stick with? /:
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reader, Elydiese  +, writes (21 June 2010):
Who is worth losing because thats the question you'll have to answer. Is it worth giving up your friend for the guy or vice versa
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 June 2010): Guys come and guys go.Friends are forever.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 June 2010):
Well which do you want. You have a choice. Your friend, or him. That's your choice. Who do you want more? Who is expendable? Only you can answer that, not us. But what I can tell you is this. Many people have chosen a parter over a friend and come to regret it. More to the point, he may like you, but he's there flirting with others. As I say though, your choice. Either she goes, or he goes.
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