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writes:Hi!I'm always not sure if my girlfriend loves me, I know she does! That is the sad part, she loves me so much but my insecurity is driving her nuts!! How do I just chill out and let her be. I really love her and we are special but I'm screwing this up!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 June 2010): you must address your insecurities, not with her but with yourself. in order to truly give and receive love, we must first love ourselves. when we have not resolved past issues with rejection and hurt, we continue to look at ourself as not good enough because we are looking thru the eyes of the ones who hurt us. truly those old relationships just weren't meant to be. you doubt her love because you arent sure your lovable. let go of the past otherwise it will ruin the present. im in the same boat and im the lady in the pic and i realized finally until he loves himself, there is nothing i can do to make him believe i love him. more than that, i know how much he loves me, but the doubting and the pushing away he does makes me feel like less of a woman.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 June 2010):
I think you need to go to counselling and find out why you feel this way. You need to be seen doing something to get over this, and counselling really is the only way to get over this feeling. The alternative is that you'll lose her. There must be a reason you feel this way, and the only way to find out what is it is to get counselling.
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