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*uggalette4lyf01
writes:Is my relationship pretty much over? I dont know whats going on...my boyfriend is 31 and I'm only 21...and we've been living together for the past 8 months, and we've been dating for a little bit over a year. and all we've been doing lately is fighting. He doesn't want to go out. He just sits in front of the computer playing WOW all day and all night if he could. We dont go out unless its to his best friends house, and thats for about 2-3 hours and then we're back at home. I'm not sure what to do, I've tried to talk to him but he doesn't want to talk to me. We fight at least once a week now...and i can't stand it.please help...i could really use it right about now.
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reader, Myrrh  +, writes (22 June 2010):
 Hi. It sounds as if your boyfriend got the girl and now hes happy to retire! Which is no kind of life for you. I think you could be correct about things being over. He doesnt want to take you.out. He doesnt want to talk to you. And he wants to spend all day AND night on a computer. And theres a row every week. Things dont sound right at all. I think you need to ask him where he sees this relationship going and if he actually wants to be with you.Because he sounds as if hes not making any effort at all to give you attention. If that.is the best he can offer you, no one would blame you for leaving x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 June 2010):
Well, you've tried to talk to him, and he's not listened. And at 31, he really should be doing more with his life than just sitting at computers or visiting his friend. You're a young girl. Dump him and go have fun. You don't want to be old before your time, and you'll miss out on so much and regret it. Especially of he turns out to be just a loser or something.
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