A
female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: Hey there, I'm really infatuated by this boy right now, but I cant seem to understand him. Sometimes I cant help staring, and he responds by glaring at me with squinty eyes and a mean look. Other times if i start accidentaly talking too loud, he'll pretend not to hear me and roll his eyes. But, I decided to give it back to him and i ignored him for a few days. I noticed that we sort of flipped places; he would stare at me more and I would ignore him. I dont know if he wants my attention, or is just teasing me. How can understand what he wants? I've heard it through the grape vine that he likes me but his actions are far different than I had first expected.
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reader, keikoBell +, writes (21 June 2010):
Boys can drive you crazy at the best of times can't they! But the fact that he stares at you in class is showing you that he's probably interested. I would advise not showing off to get his attention though, Often the best way to do this is to quietly read, in a positon that faces opposite to him. If you can see him looking, look up & smile, then look down at your book again. He may be too shy to start a converstaion with you, so next time your close to him make a comment that he can reply to, if he does reply then you can start talking & let the converstaion roll on from there. If he glares at you & doesn't generally smile it could be his way of getting your attention - So you need to try & coax him out of his shell. Make him feel comfortable around you, the more you talk to him the more relaxed he will feel. Being friends with him will help you undertstand him better, & how he feels, because all boys are different. Making a new friend never hurt anyone, so just be confident, fun & up for a laugh. Good Luck
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