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It was my first time and I was bleeding alot, should I be worried??

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Question - (21 June 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 21 June 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi I'm 18 and I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time but then during the sex I was bleeding alot. I used a condom but I'm afraid, am I'm going to get pregnant?

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A female reader, kayla20 United Kingdom +, writes (21 June 2010):

kayla20 agony auntyour not going to get pregnant unless the condom splits so you dont need to worry about that but if your worried maybe you should go on the pill aswel as using condoms then you deffinately cant get pregnant well it would be a very very slim chance anyway.its perfectly normal to bleed quite alot everyone is different but you shouldnt worry to much it does stop when i lost my virginity i lost alot of blood it went through the sheets and stained a big patch of the matress

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A female reader, YouWish United States +, writes (21 June 2010):

YouWish agony auntYou were bleeding because your hymen was broken. Most girls bleed some, and some, like you, bleed a lot. Did you know that in ancient times, after a husband took his wife to bed for the first time, they displayed the blood stained sheets to show that the woman was a virgin, and thus worthy of the dowry that went with her marriage.

You're completely normal. If you keep bleeding after a few days, you should get checked by your doctor.

However, being pregnant is another thing. Take the morning after pill (you can get it at Walgreens) for good measure, but if the condom didn't break and no semen leaked, you should be okay.

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A female reader, QZ United States +, writes (21 June 2010):

QZ agony auntBleeding is normal. The hymen skin breaks during sex (usually) and this can cause bleeding. Some women bleed more than others. If you used a condom and it was used correctly, no, you aren't pregnant, so you can stop worrying. (: The hymen can also break from excessive exercise, use of tampons, or other activities.

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