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writes: My fiance has a very tight vagina, almost that of a virgin. She however is mother to 3 children, 2 of whom were C-Section deliveries, obviously leaving her with a very tight vagina. Furthermore due to the C-Sections her vagina has minimal scarring from the stitching involved with her 1 vaginal birth resulting in added ribbing which makes sex that much more WOW with her. It doesn't take very long at all for me to cum with her because of this. I have never had an issue before however am looking for ways to hopefully resolve this matter so that the both of us can be mutually satisifed in the many future sexual engagements between us. Any and all help would be Greatly appreciated...
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reader, insrchof +, writes (24 June 2010):
You have to learn your own point of no return. Usually you do this through masturbation. When you feel like your going to come, stop and push all of your blood into your penis (flex it). Learn to use your kegel muscle. The same one that makes women tighter, also helps you to control your orgasm. Stop your urine flow is the best way to get started. If you need to hold back, grab at the base of your penis and squeeze. If you cum, then obviously you went to far. There are also aids that can help with your sensitivity. Things like a de-sensitizing gels or the fleshlight. Once you know your point, you can stop during intercourse and wait for it to subside or pull out and wait, while kissing her or going down on her. She doesn't need to know about it, unless it already happens. Good luck. This is just my own personal advice.
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