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writes:Hey everyone, My girlfriend and i have a pretty physical relationship but of course it has died down some. I made it very romantic for her one time and since we both are completely free from our parents sometimes we have to go to the back of the car. After the SUPER SUPER romantic session she wont do any more physical stuff with me and it kinda makes me irritated. Guys you know how it is, so can someone help me! please... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHey everyone. Yall are right. She deserves more than that and no she is not easy... We're both 19 and she lost her virginity to me and i was the first guy she went far with. It's just if we cant find a place i just get frustrated.
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reader, Gabrielle Stoker  +, writes (21 June 2010):
 Personally, I love seeing the back of a car, but it doesn't work for everyone. Try a proper place and see what ensues.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 June 2010):
I suspect you'll find she just doesn't want to do it in the back of the car, and also wants to make sure you're not just using her for sex as well. You've got to step up and prove yourself as a boyfriend now, and not just a man she has sex with. Women do like romance, it has to be said. So step up and prove your worth to her.
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reader, shylandavid +, writes (21 June 2010):
yea you should definately find a...more suitable place..niiiicee XP
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reader, YouWish +, writes (21 June 2010):
 What was the SUPER ROMANTIC part??
There's a stigma attached to the back of the car sex. It's uncomfortable, the police could break it up (happened to me once!), and girls who give it up in the back of the car have been unfairly labeled as "easy".
You might want a bed and some privacy instead!
Other than that, PM has a point. This would take a good talk about your respective values and morals regarding getting physical. Most likely, the relationship will get better if you have the talk.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (21 June 2010):
 Maybe she just does not like having sex in the back of a car. I can't say I blame her :).
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reader, PM  +, writes (21 June 2010):
 My suggestion is that you talk to her about it and find out what the problem is. If you think there is any kind of future for the two of you, then whether or not you can build that future together depends on how well the two of you can work through issues. Talk to her and listen to what she tells you.
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