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writes: So, this is my second time posting. Last time i said i wanted to break up with my boyfriend and that i found an apartment that is ready to be moved into. Everyone thought i was being scared and didn't want to break up with my boyfriend. But, I'm not scared what i was trying to ask is how do i break up with him. We live together and I don't want to break it off in our living room. I wanted some suggestions on how to break up with him and where.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (1 June 2010):
There is no easy scenario. When you live together, it's going to be hard no matter what you do. The best thing you can do is just do it and get it over with. Get as much essential belongings of your out of there and into your new apartment and than just tell him. If you don't want to do it in your house/apartment then meet someplace outside... a park or something.
But the longer you wait the harder it will be. Just do it and get it over with.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 June 2010):
Why no in the living room? Breaking up isn't about location. It's about doing it. It doesn't matter where you are, he will be hurt, and so will you. However, you could just take him out to a cafe or anywhere like that and tell him it's over. But don't waste time picking location. Make it short, calm and clear and then cut all contact.
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