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Do I try to stay friends or hope for more?

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Question - (1 June 2010) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

so i recently met a group of people that allowed me and my gurls to join their lil click...we hang out with them all the time. then i met him he was so cool when i first met him i didnt excpet to grow feelings for him i just saw it as another friend but with time things started to grow not only for me but him as well on mothers day he came over to hang out with me and my gurls after it was just me and him he confessed to me that he was starting to fall for me but he had a gf..so i tried to back off...he txt me everyday and i asked him why..he told me that he just cant stop talking to me because im something special and he has nvr felt so close to someone before not even with his gf...he also explained to me that with his gf it took three days to get her to have sex with him..but with me he doesnt even want to try that becuase what he feels goes beyond that..he recently told about some problems with his gf and how they dont have sex anymore..they are kinda losing that flame and i helped him out i told him how he could fix his relationship..no point in being selfish with this situation...this hurt me alot and he knows this..i asked him to stop talking to me for awhile so i could get over him and he says he would respect my decision but it would hurt him to do so...idk what to do with this situation help!!!!...do i just keep him as a best friend and move on..or keep believing that he is going to leave her soon...what do i do???

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