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female
age
30-35,
*tefStef
writes:I am hurting really bad right now and I'm really confused. My boyfriend and me have been dating for four months, and whenever we do not get to hangout we text all day straight , well i am on vacation right now and i asked my bf if we could not text just for a day so that i could spend some time with my family and not be glued to my phone all day. Well we didn't talk all day today and now he is saying that he thinks that we should take a break for a month or just break up and be friends. The part that really confuses me is that just yesterday he was saying how much he cared about me and how much he missed me and couldn't wait until i got back , and today he just doesn't want to have anything to do with me. what do i do?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 June 2010):
He's too immature to cope with a relationship at this time. End it with him. I know you care about him, but if he can't commit to you while you're just away on a holiday, there is no way he will ever commit properly. I don't ever really think breaks work anyway. For the most part, a break leads to a split. Truth is, he's not mature enough. If he's wanting a break over this, there is a reason. Don't waste your time with a guy who's not committed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2010): hey there,
He is just feeling insecure hun, and that is why he has said all of those negative things to you. He is basically acting out in insecurity, as he probably feels that he needs you more than you need him, even though you that is not true.
I would write him a letter or email and just explain how you feel about him and that the last thing you want is to split from him.
Give him time and reassurance and he'll come round.
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