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writes:What does it mean when your boyfriend tells you that they will be very busy (work) for the next month or more? They mean it in the way that you probably wouldn't see them. Mine did. I have barely seen him for the last month, sex once in the last 4 weeks. I personally think he's loosing interest. I do think he is being honest about being busy but i see him on a fri or sat night i dont know why it should impact that. i dont even know if i should say anything either. Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 June 2010):
A man in loves makes an effort, even if he has work. That's what men do. I'm afraid if does sound like he's losing interest. I'd give him a certain amount of time and if nothing's changed, end it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2010): It doesn't sound good to me, if he has said he will be busy for the next month or more, and he was implying you will not see each other. But he could mean it genuinely, and it may not be related to how he feels about you. Does he seem at all concerned or bothered by the lack of contact you will have, and have already been having? If it seems to bother him too, then he may just be really busy, as he says. But if he doesn't seem to care about it, then it may be that he is simply not that into the relationship as you are.
I don't think it will hurt to try and talk to him though. Maybe you could ask him, "I know you are busy, but what about us? Is there any chance we will be able to spend some time together?" No matter how busy he may be, if he cares about the relationship I'm sure he would be able to work something out. Again, I also think it depends on how he feels about it. If he doesn't seem bothered...then it makes me wonder if he is making up excuses as to why he cannot spend time with you.
So why not try asking him about it? I think you may as well try. But if he can't or won't make time for you, it isn't a good sign to me. You may start to feel neglected, and I don't think that is very fair. I hope everything works out well for you. x
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