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Should I give up on her?

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Question - (1 June 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 1 June 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Should I give up on her?

this older woman I been crushing on.

shes a lesbian.when I'm around her and we talk shes stand very close to me.sometimes it seems like shes getting closer to me when we talk.shes always smiling when she sees me but when someone else around that she works with she seems cold around me.she gave me her number.i called 4 times and left 2 message but she never replied back.i asked her about it.she said she din't recognize the number. i asked her if its because of My age. I'm 18 and shes between 30 and 40.

she said thats not why.she said she didn't recognize the number and said something else but I forgot.Its like she was making excuses.It doesn't make that much since to me.but I don't know if I want to get involved with her.shes very immature for her age. I may be 18 but I'm way more mature than her.

can you tell me if she likes me or what is her deal.

I don't know whats with her most of the time she sees me she'll watch me when I walk into the store and glances at me.she would do this before when she didn't know me. most of the time I would be the one going up saying hi.I don't know why she'll stare at me and act like I don't see her when I see her look at me and trying to hide a smile.well I guess she can't say hi to me because she works.I mostly go in there to buy an idem and sometimes say hi to her.

Can you tell me what I should do?

I might be getting a job there soon.she might be a bit distracting while I'm working but its avoidable.Maybe I should just ignore her

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (1 June 2010):

eyeswideopen agony auntShe'll let you know if she is interested. In the mean time just go about your business. You left the ball in her court.

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