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36-40,
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writes:My ex and I started talking again and agreed that we both would like to be friends. The thing is I started realising that even though he brought up the friends thing it didnt really seem like he was trying to be my friend. He never asked how I was or anything or tried to make any conversation. So I asked him if he really wanted to be friends and it ended up being a argument. From the argument it seemed like he blamed me for everything and hated my guts. I pointed this out and he said he wants to be friends and insisted on it. I also then said he hasnt tried to be my friend and he said I dont have anything to talk to you about. I said then it doesnt sound like you want to be friends then. And he flipped out and kept going on about how he cant trust me. (He broke my trust my messing with my emotions but I havent ever given him any reason not to trust me) Well it ended up that he said he does want to be my friend. I also recently got a new boyfriend and my best friend who studies with my ex says he always finds a way to bring me up when they see each other. I really need advice on what to do now and why he is acting the way he is. And if I should just wait for him to contact me now? Thank you
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 June 2010):
You're becoming the doormat. Move on now.
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reader, Bickycat +, writes (1 June 2010):
I would leave it if I were you. My ex did the same sort of thing. He expected me to be there for him whenever he had a row with the new g/f, when he lost his job, etc. Yet couldn't even be bothered to text me when I lost my Dad recently. (He'd known my Dad well). That finished it for me. Selfish. In my case,it was him who caused the split in the first place and yet it's him to appears to be bitter. I would advise you to forget it. You're worth more than all that rubbish. Good luck.
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