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writes:"OPs Own Title" Hi Readers.I've posted some questions on here before, but I'm still looking for advice. I'm a 23 year old female, with a MAJOR crush on a 34 year old female. I don't even know if I am gay or not - I've only ever felt like this once before for a woman, the rest of my relationships have been with men...Problem is that I'm finding it very difficult to read this woman in question. I'm 50/50 on whether or not she feels the same attraction for me. She will use any excuse to talk to me, and one particular incident a few weeks back has really left me spinning...I was out with her and some other mates for a night out in a pub and club. We were both pretty drunk by the time we made it to the club. When we got there we stayed together in the corner, talking for most of the night. At one stage I was talking to another person, with my back to her. She latched onto my hand and held it. I just continued the conversation with the other person - perhaps I should have acknowledged it, but I didn't. After a while she let go, and then placed her arm around my waist. At this stage I looked at her and she smiled. The next day when everyone had sobered up, she acted very weird with me. She never mentioned the night before, and I got the feeling she didn't want to be around me.Since that, we are now fine again, and the awkwardness has gone (until our next night out together...) But I still think that there is something between us. I don't know what exactly...Can anyone help me, Please??Thanks for readingxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2010): PERSON WHO WROTE QUESTION
Hi.
It's just normal bars etc. No gay bars. She can be flirty with me when sober too, but not to the extent as when drunk. But whenever I'm around her I get a feeling from her. One I can't describe but it's like as I instinctively feel something for her... I'm just so confused, and I don't want to allow myself to believe she may like me, as the fall if I realise she doesn't would hurt...
Can you help?
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reader, Earthboundluv  +, writes (1 June 2010):
 Ok, you mentioned not knowing if you are gay or not but what about the 34 year old female? When you guys go out is it to gay pub (club etc.)? Is she only flirting when she is drunk? For now it sounds like she gets touchy feely when she's drunk and wants attention from you but is uncomfortable being with you whens she not drunk. So that either means she's just flirty with you, she's not comfortable with a gay lifestyle(being with a woman when others or around) or maybe she doesn't know your sexual status and doesn't want to offend you, but goes further when she's drunk. I really need to know more about her if you could tell me more that would help.
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