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writes:So I’ve managed go get myself into another difficult situation and I’m not sure how to proceed about it.About a month ago after a particularly difficult day where I had just ended an off and on again relationship. Not because I no longer had feelings for the guy but because it was getting to complicated and we never seemed to be on the same page, I decided to go out to a club with a couple friends. After having a drinking more than I should have a headed back to my best friend’s house to crash. (my best friend and I have been inseparable since we were two years old). After she'd gone to sleep her older brother got home so we stayed up talking. We were both drunk and ended up moving to his bedroom...I wouldn’t think it would be that big of a deal to her except for the face that me previous off and on relationship was with her boyfriend’s older brother and she had been completely unapproved that relationship.This was a onetime thing. Do I tell her or keep it between him and I?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2010): Tell her, explain you were drunk but don't use that as an excuse... I dunno... You sound like you have have kind of possibly ruined it
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (1 June 2010):
 Oh geeze. Well, she's your best friend. Normally, I'd say to keep it between you two, but she will find out anyways eventually. Would you rather have her just be mad at you for having a one night stand with her other brother, or would you have her be furious that you had one AND didn't tell her?
You're an adult, so is her brother, and you and your BF had broken up, so it's not cheating. I don't normally advocate rebound one-night-stands, but at least you knew the guy, as opposed to picking up some random guy with some random possible STD. I'm assuming you and this older brother played it safe and used protection!
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