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writes: hi i broke up with my boyfriend for 9 months and now were back togeter for 5 months now!!! we have a 2 and a half yr old son! his father doesnt take care of us both and i dont think i love him or anything like that but theres something keeping me from letting him go and complete my life with my son alone as a single mother!!!hi father is always swearing and shouting hes very nervous!! hes always calling me names he never say nice thigs to me or my child! what shall i do?continue this relationship or brake up again and never let him in our lives again!!!!thnks jj
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reader, MonksDaBomb  +, writes (2 June 2010):
 Break up with him - if he's always swearing and reacting out of control in front of you AND your child, then your child is definitely going to pick up on that. You need to find a nice, quiet place for your child to grow up, without all the chaos and drama.
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reader, Xtina356 +, writes (2 June 2010):
Does he have any redeeming qualities? Your description sounds like he doesn't do anything to make your life better or easier. If that is the case, then you already know the answer to your question.
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reader, DeadEyeDick +, writes (2 June 2010):
 Leave him and make him realize what he's lost, give it about 6 months, if he cares he will get his shit together, treat you right, take care of you guys, and all will be well, if he doesnt care he more then likely wont bother pursuing you!
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (2 June 2010):
 There is no point in maintaining a relationship for the sake of your child. Eventually your child will pick up on your misery and it will affect him. Being a single mother is probably better than staying in a loveless, joyless relationship based on convenience alone. In fact by staying with him you deny yourself the opportunity to meet someone else who may treat you better. I am not saying leave your boyfriend and go find someone else straight away. I am saying leave him because he makes you and your child unhappy.
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