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writes:Loved sex with ex girlfriend but am getting married in a few months. Have seen ex gf who I was suppose to marry. When I have seen her I think of the best sex I have had. Love future wife and sex just not match in terms of orgasmic frequency during stimulation. Vaginal verses oral. Love the feel of an orgasm around me during penetration. We talk about it but not ever bringing up ex girl friend ability. I think would issue in more problemsex wants me bad and I think about the episodes. Would devastate if looked back. Confused and don't know what to do for the best...
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reader, BunnyTee +, writes (1 June 2010):
 I'm down with Griffo. EXACTLY what he said.
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reader, Griffo  +, writes (1 June 2010):
 Sorry but, build a bridge and get over it. you do not deserve this woman you are currently with. get your priorities straight, you are not a teenager anymore your a man so be one. Other wise dump her and go back to your ex. Which will sooner or later fall apart because that's why she's your ex in the first place.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (1 June 2010):
 I must also say: buy a vibrator. If your wife to be gets clitoral stimulation during the penetration, she can achieve an orgasm while you are in her. That is if she knows how to work a vibrator, those things need a little practice. But it is definitely worth it as she will be feeling great as well!
And good job on never bringing up your ex's ability. Talking about ex's and the bedroom is never a good idea.
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reader, chigirl +, writes (1 June 2010):
Remind yourself of what an awful person your ex was and why you left her and why your relationship didn't work out. That should do the trick. Also: if you are only starting to really think about her now, it is the wedding nerves talking! You are taking a big step in your relationship, getting married, and it is naturally scaring! It is a huge step to take. So it is natural to react. Just try and calm down and remember why you want to marry your wife.
Also remember: great sex is great and all, but it takes a lot more for a marriage to last than just sex. It also takes a lot more for a relationship to work out and for you to be happy than a great orgasm. With time, your wife and you can explore the bedroom and the sex can get better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2010): Another thing... if you current gf can't come from sex with you isn't that your fault?! Your x might make you feel good but there is a chance that you don't make her feel as good, she might leave you if she has had better sex with someone else (your ex)
it seems too cruel to marry a woman you've considered leaving for sex, I'm not suggesting call it off but maybe pospone it till you can grow up.
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reader, Carrot2000 +, writes (1 June 2010):
 Please clarify: you're thinking about ending a relationship because your fiancee needs oral stimulation to cum? Is that her fault or yours? Ever heard of a G-spot?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 June 2010):
Do you really want to risk a decent marriage for the sake of sex with an ex? You're walking into a mess. Stay with the decent women who is not an ex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2010): I guess it depends do you want sex or love??
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