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*ummyummy123
writes:So i been dating my boyfriend for almost 5 years an things have been pretty good. The first 3 years since he tended to break up with me for some other girls. Only because his parents didnt have a good relationship an it freaked him out whenever it got serious. So anyway the last 2 years have been well. We got over our issues an began planning a future. Now i find him beginning to talk to another girl. She is going to be going into grade 12 next year an 17 an he is gonna be 22 almost graduated college. Now i dont care that they talk but sometimes it seems he wants to hang out with her an it kinda makes me a little afraid due to our past. Should I be worried? Or is it cuz we been together so long he finds he wants to talk to another girl that isnt one of my friends. He knows she young but i still find myself scared. Its just been casual talking but it seems whenever she stops talking or the convo dies he goes an picks up with another topic. I dont really no what to think Reply to this Question
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 June 2010):
Why, why, why do women torture themselves with men who aren't good enough. All he did in the first 3 years was break up and go with other girls. And all you did was take him back. It's time to see this guy for what he is. An immature user of women. All the words you can say to him, all the love you can give won't count for anything. You need to end it with this guy now and move on from him.
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reader, YouWish  +, writes (1 June 2010):
 Sounds like this guy has serious intimacy and maturity problems. As much as you don't want to hear this, the force of your love will not change him. He isn't in a place to be serious with a girl. I'd drop him, truthfully, and let him find his own way.
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