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*brianna.?
writes:My boyfriend and i have been dating for about a year, and we still love each other every much. i am sure of that. it's just we're both busy, and stuff with our work. and i want a little more "fun" in our realtionship, like we used to have. there hasn't been any arguing or anything, and i'm not worried that our realtionship is going to "fall apart" it's just i want it to be a little more exciting, and fun. i will appreciate any advice or tips' that anyone will give. Reply to this Question
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reader, Odds +, writes (1 June 2010):
 Get his imagination going, and get him to take charge. Tell you you'll have a "special surprise" for him, but you want to save it for a special night.
He'll plan something. Meanwhile, you need to buy some lingerie and what an instructional video. Nifty new sex acts will reinforce the "special night" behavior, causing him to take you out someplace fun and unique more often.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (1 June 2010):
 A relationship doesn't just fall apart because it got a little boring. At the beginning, just hanging out doing nothing, is fun. Right now you feel like you have to work hard at it. The next movie, the next carnival won't be more fun than the last one. The city eventually runs out of stuff to do. Travelling round the globe is something that rich, retired couples do. The secret is to train your eyes to see him everytime as if it's the first time or the last time. Live each day as if it's your last day. Just the fact that you and your boyfriend are still together is a miracle. Life, existence itself is worth celebrating. You don't have to wait until birthdays and Valentine's day to celebrate. Each moment is beautiful. Your boyfriend doesn't have to get you the moon and stars to please you. Look into his eyes deeply and you'll find that the spark is still there, infinite and bright.
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reader, princessJaye14 +, writes (1 June 2010):
 One thing to try is weekend fun; use days when neither of you is working and get out and about! It's a great way to be together and express your happiness and excitement. Some things to try are weekend vacations to a nearby city or historic town. (for instance, Charleston, SC.) More ideas are carnivals, sports games, concerts, parties, double-dates, and so on. I'm sure that your mate desires the same thing. Good luck!!
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