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writes:I have been with my wife for 9 years now I have always thought of her as very sexy -- at times she can wear outfits that make me crazy. But as of this last year she has started to wear outfits that show more then the norm. At first it was fun, I never knew when or where, but now it has become more blatant. Not around friends or family, just out. How far will this go? Reply to this Question
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reader, raiders +, writes (1 June 2010):
 Talk to her and let her know what bothers you and what you find ok. She might think you like the way she dresses since you were ok with it before.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2010): Just sit down and talk to her, very gently, about it. :] She probably noticed some positive attention from you when she started doing it, and now she's taking it a little further in hopes of getting more positive attention because she thinks you like it.
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reader, princessJaye14 +, writes (1 June 2010):
 It sounds like she's trying to get more of your attention. Have you been M.I.A lately? That's the million-dollar question here. She might feel as if you've disappeared in your own mind and she wants you back. It might be that in the past her boyfriends thought she was boring, or just ran out of steam to keep an interesting relationship. Tell her that you think she is getting too far, and ask her why she did it in the first place. Who knows, she might say that she felt you were ignoring her. To answer your main question, i would like to say that if you talk to her, that nonsense will stop. By marrying you she made a promise to respect you and your feelings, so she will definitely change.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2010): Have you talked with her about how you feel? I think thats the first step...she needs to know whether you are happy with what she is doing or uncomfortable. You need communication after all she is your wife. mal
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (1 June 2010):
 Explain to her in a gentle way that you feel uncomfortable with her dressing this way in public. Do not fight or blame her!
Good Luck!
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