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writes:Dear cupid,i am a 28 year old SWM, recently a girl that i have casually known for the past 2 years who is a good friend of one one of my close male friends was in a situation where she needed to get out of the place she was living in, i work away from home quite often and have a dog and need a house sitter so i let her move in because my male friend suggested it, she is really happy with her new place as it is better than her previous place and told me that i am her guardian angel as well her dog and my dog really hit it off and she constantly says how much better her dog and her are living in my place as well her dog has a history of not getting along with male dogs very well. One of the first things she told me was that there is nothing going on between her and my close friend, so we have gone out together a couple times we both like doing the same things and get along really well we laugh together like old friends, i have started to like this girl and i dont know if she feels the same way i think she does, when it comes to calling each other she has been the initiator mostly as i have played it cool with her, we have some tentative plans made for when i return home and one booked plan, however i did call the other night (we spoke 2 days prior)and she was on her way to a show with friends and she asked me if i had anything important to discuss or did i just want to chat i said i just wanted to chat but told her to have a good night out with her friends and i would talk to her later she then told me the name of the show and where they were going i said have fun, i can see something happening in the future but would like to know if you think she is being friendly or if there is something there based on what i have said here. Also she mentioned that she was asked out on a date but does not see any point to going on the date as she really does not like the person who asked her out in that way.Please respond Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2010): that's exactly how I act around guys I'm interested in! it sounds like she's hinting for you to ask her out by the way she keeps telling you she's single! decide if you want a relationship as more than friends and go for it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2010): The fact that she is pointing out that she is free on two different occasions points to interest. Women make a big deal about how single they are when they are with a guy they want to take initiative and come after them. She was quick to point out there was nothing between your friend and her, and then later (even though she has no reason to) she pointed out how she turned down some other guy.Gauge how she interacts with her other male friends. Is it similar to how she interacts with you or different in some ways? Does she call them the way she calls you, or tell them where she is when it is unnecessary, or tell them about how she's available? Does she sit closer to you than other guys, etc? There are tons of little signs. Best way to figure out is keep talking to her and getting close to her, and then when you're comfortable go for it.
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reader, Earthboundluv  +, writes (1 June 2010):
 If she told you that she was asked out by someone, it maybe because she wanted to see or hear your reaction to that comment. I feel that she maybe interested in having more with you but maybe waiting on you to step up and let her know how you feel about her. The best resolution to this, is for you to get clear on how you really feel and what you really what and let her know.Ask yourself: Do you want to remain just friends or do you want more? Also, before you tell her how you feel, you plan a date take her out and on the date find out what she's wants, do you both want the same thing when it comes to a relationship? Start talk to her. Act how you really feel towards her, so that she can feel a connection growing.
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