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*earAlice
writes:he doesnt want to answer any of my calls and he doesnt respond to any of my emails.... i know i sound crazy right now but i miss him so much. my life feels so boring with out him. everything reminds me of him. what should i do? how should i forget. i feel like him and i are never gonna get back together again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2010): i agree with caringguy it looks like he doesnt want to stay in touch with you, depending on how and when you broke up, you really need to let him go and start looking at how you can move on with your life. Firstly, STOP CALLING HIM, stop contacting him he is not going to change his mind because you are stalking him, delete his number from your phone, facebook, myspace account etc so that you stop checking up on him and looking at his pictures. Secondly, get rid of all the things that remind you of him, the cards, pictures, presents etc just put them away somewhere safe. It hurts like hell but you must value yourself and know that you come first and you will find someone new eventually. Talk to your close friends about it dont hold back the pain cry if you must, go out with your friends, but stop stressing yourself about this immature guy he is not worth it.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (1 June 2010):
I don't think you are going to get back together. He's cut contact, and that's a sign that this is over. You have to get out there and focus on your own life now. If your life is boring without him, then you need to focus on your own life. A boyfriend is not there to fill a huge gap. A boyfriend is supposed to be able to slip into your life and add to it. Fill your gaps of boredom yourself. And as for this guy, stop chasing or you'll become an obsessed ex with a restraining order on you.
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