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Input needed here! What can I do to make him trust me again?

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Question - (1 June 2010) 9 Answers - (Newest, 1 June 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *ustscreamkeitah writes:

Okay so the boy i lost my virginity to is acting kind of different now. First he says, that the sex wasnt good and now he has a girl. He hates me for lying to him(which iDidnt) He doesnt believe i Was a virgin. And he tells me all the time that he hates liars but im always truthful with him. I saw him yesterday and he kept on saying how not to hit him up on aim myspace tagged texting or nothing. But everytime iHit him up he replys back. And also he kept saying yesterday that he was going to go see his girlfriend and have sex with her(iThink he kept saying that just to get me mad). Now he knows i still like him and im in love with him no matter what. I want to have a relationship with him. What should i do to make him trust me again and not accuse me of lying to him all the time and iWant him to likee me back like he did before. What should i Do ???

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A female reader, sabby12 United States +, writes (1 June 2010):

you shouldnt have to do anything i know u love him and stuff but like if he didnt believe that you were a virgin then hes too stupid to know what a virgins vagina feels like :/

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2010):

..sorry but sad to say, dont expect anymore that he will came back., i think, he doesnt love u!!he just want ur virginity.. it is just her allibies.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (1 June 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntYou cannot force people to love you . If they don't love you , it is better to walk away.

Even if you do everything he says, he will only treat you like a piece sh*t.

Have more self worth and don't throw yourself upon him.It is like casting pearls before swines.

Those swines do not know the value of pearls and will only grind them into the mud.

If you really want him back , you will need to ignore him completely and act like he is just some piece of crap.Turn the tables on him.

You want him back because love is blind and you cannot see what he is doing to you . Love can be fatal attractions.

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A female reader, heaven= United States +, writes (1 June 2010):

kinda sorry to say this but the guy used you.

he proably knows you like him as much as you do and he is saying that on purpose just to get you pissed off.

ithink you should find some other guy someone less of an ass

or maybe even you should have fun for now not care about loving and stuff as much as you love him now

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2010):

You did NOTHING to make him not trust you in the first place, so I'm sorry to say there's nothing you can do to make him trust you again. He's just someone who can't trust and if you try to be with him, it will only hurt you, badly. I was with someone like him for 3 years and no matter how hard I tried I couldn't get him to trust me in all that time.

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (1 June 2010):

Miamine agony auntI'm sorry we sound so harsh, but its the truth.. That's why we keep telling you teenagers not to have sex before you are legal.

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A female reader, Miamine United Kingdom +, writes (1 June 2010):

Miamine agony auntBack off, have more respect for yourself. This guy aint interested, he only wanted sex. He's had sex with you, he dosen't want you anymore. He's got a girlfriend, and that's who he saves all his love for.

Your allowing this boy to make a fool of you. Stop chasing after him... he's told you.. he wants his girlfriend not you.

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A female reader, princessJaye14 United States +, writes (1 June 2010):

princessJaye14 agony auntNot to be copycat, but I agree with CaringGuy. If he's saying things to make you jealous, he's obviously not mature enough for you. Only toddler-witted boys attempt to make their girlfriends mad. I'm imagining that all he wanted from you is sex, and now he's attempting to ditch you. i'm not saying that you should try to ditch him first, but be careful. Let him do what he wants for now; there are so many other guys out there who mean well and show it. Look for a guy who respects you and trusts you instead of chasing fantasies. Hope this works!!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (1 June 2010):

Trust YOU! Stop chasing him. He's used you. You're the one who can't trust him. Just stop with him now, he's used you.

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