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reader, timmydut  +, writes (5 June 2010):
timmydut is verified as being by the original poster of the questionits hard to ask her if she wont answer my calls i think she has had enough of me
she was realy good untill we were called a couple i segested it & she lost it now she wont even answer should i leave her alone dont know its keeping me awake at night
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reader, paul739  +, writes (2 June 2010):
What you have to find out is does she not want a relationship with anyone at the moment or does she not ant a relationship with YOU. If it's the first then hang on in there, be her friend so if and when the time comes she feels she is able to date then maybe you will be top pick! In the meantime give her some space. If you are too close to her you may suffocate her and this may make her more inclined to push you away. I've been in this situation so I know what I'm on about!
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reader, timmydut +, writes (2 June 2010):
timmydut is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you anonymous
would you think if i give her time we may get back together i know i have been crowding her latley & worried this may happen things wrere fine when i had more commitments & it was harder to see her but when i put her first its like she puts up a wall i cant get into
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2010): Listen to yourself "it's killing me".The fact is no one has the power to make you feel a certain way.The very attitude you are projecting will make her run away.i know i have been emotionally unavailable for years.I know what it feels like.for me it's more about losing faith in people and relationships in general.it;s like a choice not to play because you don't trust everyone will play fair.I think the trick is not to appear too needy.Don't be saying i love you at all.be a challenge .women want what they can't have.be aloof a mystery above all don't be a wussy nice kiss butt guy.
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reader, timmydut +, writes (2 June 2010):
timmydut is verified as being by the original poster of the questionit just hurts so much i dont think ill ever find anyone like her i want to know if is just fear of commitment or not she has been hurt in the past we got on so well untill i caulled us a couple just dont get ii
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 June 2010):
Don't even try. If she's not there, she's just not there and it's best for you to move on. Don't waste time chasing after someone who's just not there.
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