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writes:Omg. People, please tell me what to do. I recently just stared talking to my ex-boyfriend as a friend again. When we broke up we were friends for a while, then i changed my number, then the holidays came around so i wished him the best, out of love. He was my first boyfriend, we were together for around 8 months. Throughout that time we barely hung out but never slept together. One day a few months ago i was at a club and he textd me, he wasn't happy with his baby mama, he didn't even want a baby with her. I was like well you messed up by havin a baby with her, a drama queen.! So lately we have been texting, but like i said as friends. And today she texts me to stop textn him, i wasn't being a punk about it, i just said we are still friends, and if i wanted him back we will be together. Him and i have had a discussion about how we feel about eachother already, he told me and eveyone i am the love of his life. I never told anyone he was the love of mines. I seen him not too long ago, and i wanted to tell him how i felt but was too scared. So what do i do.? Tell him how i feel.? Or tell him to try to work it out with his baby mama? I am torn between this, i have never felt this way, and it makes me want to cry. What do i do.?
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reader, CaliGurl88 +, writes (2 June 2010):
CaliGurl88 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWow. I don't see it like that at all. I see it like we were young and in love but i was just too naive to show him how i felt. When he got another gf i got another bf. And he is like that with only her, he was never like that with me. When we are together we talk and laugh all the time. Also, ppl have babys n break up. He doesn't want to be with her at all, but she obsessed with him.i told him to try to work it out but she's very childish. We will not get over eachother ever, i think. When i wasn't with him, i thought about him, i wanted to be with him, but i was givin us time cuz we were young.! But i told him to try to work it out, if not then im here. Im not gona wait for him, i will just be here for him. This is confusing.!
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reader, Bickycat  +, writes (1 June 2010):
You weren't interested until he texted you so why would you want him back now. He can't be all that if he's so disloyal to his current g/f. And I think you have crossed a line by telling her you can have him if you want! Put yourself in her shoes. Would you feel the same? You both need to grow up. Sorry, but that's how you come across.
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