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female
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36-40,
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writes:My bf of two years knows A LOT of girls. Which would usually be fine. But we had a row about a year ago, cos he met up with an ex behind my back, but we sorted it through and I forgave him. But...the damage still remains and I find it tricky to STOP worrying. Like, ever. He says I am a fantastic catch and he knows now if he puts another foot wrong that I will end it. But any advice on how I can sort my head out? I do want to be with him. Reply to this Question
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reader, YouWish +, writes (1 June 2010):
 Did he meet up with her and cheat on you? Or did he just meet up with her for coffee and closure? Did you catch him, or did he come clean on his own?
Have you been cheated on before with another guy? Only you can decide if your level of trust in your boyfriend is something you can live with. Did you steal him from his ex? How did they end it?
It's hard to advise you without the details of his dealings with his ex. I would say that a relationship is built on trust. If it's not there, it's destined to train wreck.
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