Would it be wrong of me to see two different men?

A female age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I was involved with a married man a little over a year ago. (His wife knew and approved of the relationship.) He went away for work so I began to persued another relationship with a different man. The second man and myself are in what can be described as a long-distance relationship, kind of... (he lives less than 5 miles away but because of some issues he has with his child we only see each other once a week) We see each other weekly, speak on the phone and over the internet daily. I really want to be with him more often but the commitment isn't there on his part. Even though he has requested that I not see other people. The married man is getting divorced, it has nothing to do with me. He's been calling asking to see me again. I'm not sure what to do. Both guys are wonderful, sweet, loving, generous, and honest. They are both good friends to me above all else. How should I handle these two men? Would it be wrong of me to see both of them?

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