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*rigger321123
writes: I was in a relationship with this girl for about 10 months, we worked on a resort together. After the season was over she went to another resort for 6 months that was 3000 miles away. I did not go with her because of some family reasons. But we remained a couple for that 6 months. Her contract ended there so I flew out there to drive with her home, the second we got home she breaks up with me. We talked and said we'll see what happens when we start work again at the resort that we met at. I got drunk one night and fooled around with a girl (no sex)that later she found out about. So she sleeps with someone that I thought was a friend tho get me back. We talked and got passed all of that about a week later. Everything seemed good and we were getting back toether. We would hangout almost every night and act like a couple for the next 3 weeks. Then all of a sudden she sleeps with that same guy again. I really want to know what to do. I love her still but I don't know why she did that to hurt me. I thought everything was going great and she told me that she loves me just the night before.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2010): Dump her.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 June 2010):
End it. You fooled around and you're paying the price. She's out to hurt you and do her own thing. When couples act like this, it's time to end it. You have each behaved badly, but she has now gone and undone it again. No one should take revenge for cheating. She has, which means she's not worth another moment of your time. Just dump her, because if you don't, she will do it again.
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