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writes:i really like this boy but i dont no if he still likes me i mean like we went out and stuff but i got fat and i he called me fat and no thaqt im skinny again i dont no wat to do i want him to like me and i want to get back with him i need help can anyojne help me Reply to this Question
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reader, LibertarianLou  +, writes (21 January 2010):
Why in the name of all things anything why would ever, ever, ever consider getting back with this clown even if he begged you!! What a pig.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010): I disagree if you really want him back then maybe you should try just having light conversations with him and then ask him and look your best. Its great you lost the weight, but if you do date and he continues with negative comments about you he is no good. Maybe he was just trying to be honest and give you some incentive to lose weight now that you have try to hang out places he hangs out maybe he even call him up and ALWAYS look your best. Say u miss the relationship and would like to try it again and see how things go from there. Be confident at all times and he will be sure to notice you.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (21 January 2010):
 Grats to loosing weight ( IF THAT IS WHAT YOU WANTED) and if that will keep you healthy.
But honey, if you feel you need to change your looks dramatically for a man to respect and love you, you have some serious issues. Self esteem issues.
What if he wants you to shave your head? Or get a tattoo on your forehead? Pierce your (insert any part of your body)? Get breast implants? Or any other plastic surgery?
Get a spine girl! Forget about him, sorry if he didn't want to date you because you gained a little weight he is the LOOSER here. YOU are who you are - start by respecting yourself and LOVE yourself.
Go out there and have fun, forget about that jerk. I'm willing to bet there are plenty of guys who would like to get to know you, skinny or "fat".
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 January 2010):
Sweetie, why would you want a guy like that bad, given that he was so cruel towards you? He's no good. He didn't just accept you, and a guy should just accept you. Now that you have a new outlook, find a new, better guy who won't treat you so badly.
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