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Just as I got over him he comes back into my life saying he wants me back. Help!

Tagged as: Cheating, Dating, The ex-factor<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (21 January 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 25 January 2010)
A female South Africa age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend high school sweetheart of 5 years cheated, i believed he was the love of my life but i found out last August that he was in a relationship with onother girl, when i confronted him he agreed he was cheating and said he doesnt need me in my life anymore and that i need to move on. i was totally broken, i tried to win him back with the help of his mother too for three months but i realised he doesnt love me anymore, i accepted that. Now i have moved on, i just met a guy 35 years old, (im 23 by the way) two months ago, i didnt love this guy at first but spending a lot of time with him im realising he is amaizing, mature and loving, he is not perfect but i love the person he is and my love for this guy is growing each day.

Just the past week my ex started calling saying he wants me back and that he made a mistake. i know i dont want his drama again but as a person i have loved dearly should i give him a chance? i was very happy before he started calling.

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A female reader, kymiie United Kingdom +, writes (25 January 2010):

kymiie agony auntif he loves you so much he will relsie that you have moved on nd let you be happy with how you are with nd move on himself, but half the time he will alway have you back :)

i got my ex back after a couple of weeks away from him he could not leave me nd he still loves me the way i loves him :) nd now we have been goning out for 3mnths yesterday.

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A female reader, kymiie United Kingdom +, writes (25 January 2010):

kymiie agony auntif he loves you so much he will relsie that you have moved on and let you be happy with how you are with nd move on himself

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (21 January 2010):

No, do not give him another chance at all. This is a guy who cheated, then ruthlessly told you he didn't need you in his life and threw you away, not coming back in the three months you tried to get him. How long until he does it again? He is your ex because he was not the guy for you. Leave him in the past where he belongs. He isn't worth the time.

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