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writes:i like this guy from same school but different class for 6months..i want to talk to him so badly,but don't know how to approach him naturally.one day he approach me and said he wants my number..i was so happy like crazy person..so began contact each other.we talked in general conversation first,few days later he asked me whether i have bf or boys around me or not.i said no..then he told me he had a gf a year ago.he really loved her,she cheated with another guy so they broke up.i comfort him and said not to worry,she's not a girl for u.he seems touched by the word what i said.2weeks later,i told my friends about that guy and he seems to like me.however their faces turned dark..a couple of minutes later,finally they opened the mouth:"omg!he's using you!!he doesn't love you!he did this just to make his ex jealous cuz she dumped him first!!"when i heard that,my heart was full of anger..betrayal,never thought this is happening to me.i want to smack his face,curse him immediately if i could.but i can't let him know my emotion.can you think of any mean talks without expressing anger on him? i don't wanna act like person who's serious about small stuff,loser,clingy infront of him.please~can you think of ways i can talk to him coolly as if i'm being used but i'm not hurt and i don't give a damn what you've done.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 January 2010):
You need to talk to him calmly. You're listening to your friends, who may not know all the facts, rather than him.
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reader, problemmaganet  +, writes (21 January 2010):
 He might or might not be using you, but you should confront him and talk about it. I totally agree with The Realist. Talk in a calm manner, and you should be able to settle his.
Good luck!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010): just ask him straight out i mean there nothing to loose by doing so. and who care what others think they dont know for sure if he is useing u or not. thats always are first thought when someone just breaks up. u never know he really might find u interesting.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (21 January 2010):
 Talk to him and find out if he is over this ex girlfriend, There is a chance that he is using you but there is also a chance that he just got out of bad relationship and is happy that he found someone who understands him.
Jugde the way he acts, his eyes, if you talk about her.
Ask him straight up with a stern tone and make it clear that you're not about to be the rebound girl. You'll be able to tell alot by how he reacts. He shouldn't be hesitent about his answers. Just try not to yell at him because he could actually care about you.
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