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writes:my penis is too small in size even in most excited condition (4 inch long and max. 1 inch diameter). Nevertheless i got married 26 yr old lady while i was at my 36. frankly speaking my penis does not fit well into her vegina. i can guess 50% of her veg. mouth remain still open. she frequently complains whether i had inserted anything or not. and most of the case of our intercourses my ejaculation reached within 5 or 6 minutes and her satisfaction is still a far cry. am i cheating on her?by the way i spend too much money on her and her family as i earned a big money per month.pls advise me.
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reader, nooky  +, writes (21 January 2010):
maybe talking to her and come up with diffent ways of satisfying her can make a big difference. Discuss other sexual positions that'll give her a penetrating sensation. doggie style often give a more acurate sensation. Oral sex often does the trick. tr y ur best to compromise oppose to turning to cheating
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (21 January 2010):
You are cheating on her only if you are sleeping with ANOTHER woman. If you are only sleeping with your wife then this is an easy problem to fix. The main problem is not the size of your penis. The main problem is that you are not taking the time to have foreplay with her first. You cannot satisfy a woman if you don't have foreplay first. Take the time to spend time exploring her body, kissing her, licking her body, giving her wet oral sex (please no teeth and rough pulling). When you have played with her for at least 30 minutes to an hour then she will be ready for you. If you can make her have an orgasm before you put your penis inside her (by oral sex or whatever she likes) then you will be the best lover in the world. If you only play with her for a few minutes then have sex with her then she is going to want it over quickly. You have to control your need to do it quickly if you want her to be satisfied with you. Your penis is within the normal size. Focus on her pleasure first and you will get yours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010): I'm sure most women will tell you that it isn't size that matters, it's what you do with it that counts. I'm not surprised if she is getting a bit annoyed if you finish after a few minutes before she has really got started....
You need to use more foreplay and try things other than just penetrative sex. There's plenty you can do to satisfy her- massage, fingering, oral sex, the list goes on. Use your imagination a bit. You will probably be able to make her orgasm even without penetration if you practice together. One of the keys to this is ASK YOU WIFE WHAT SHE LIKES. She will hopefully be able to give you some pointers as to what feels good.
Don't just go straight to the penetration, that is a recipe for disater, especially if you think you might come quicky, as your post inidicates. You can try and increase your stamina but maybe entering her for a couple of minutes, and stopping hen you feel you are getting close. This way you will be able to delay your orgasm and prolong the sex for your wife which she will appreciate. It will probably increase your staying power over time as well.
I recommend that next time you have sex with your wife you ask her what she likes and then give her plenty of foreplay. You could also try positions which are less sensitive for you, and also changing positions during sex can help to prolong things as well.
I think it is good that you are asking this question but I suspect that you have mabe neglected to think about what your wife would enjoy in the past. Spending lots of money on her does not excuse you being lazy in bed. You need to focus your attention on what she likes in bed. Then it shouldn't matter what size your penis is, as long as you can learn to satisfy her in other ways.
Make an effort!
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reader, seawer  +, writes (21 January 2010):
You are not cheating on her, but where is the love?
There are other ways to satisfy her; have you tried performing oral sex on her? extensive foreplay and massaging?
Google ways to satisfy a woman!
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