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*izz_BrownEyez
writes:Ive been with my boyfriend for 5 years, we met when i was 14 and he was 18, i was dating his friend (nothing serious) and eventually he and i hooked up. We had a great relationship in the begining (as most are), then i caught him jacking off while chatting with a girl online. After that we had a talk and agreed to not have that happen again, i thought everything was fine until again i caught him doing the same thing, now recently he has begun to do this to youtube myspace etc. This really bothers me because he and i do not have much of a sex ife any more. About 3 years ago i met a girl ( im bi sexual) i started a relationship with her while i was still with my boyfriend, this was fine until the 3sum came up, ive always been a jealous person and to see two people i cared about touch that way made me sick, so i did not agree to it, well after a few drinks and some good music i decide to let him watch me and her while he did me. (sry for the detail) no touching from him to her and no touching from her to him, was agreed and it was fine, then he begain to touch her boobs and begin to suc them, once i saw that i got up and left. Now since this has happen i do not trust him, espcially when he is gone. what do i do? I want to leave him but im not financially stable. I want a good man not a cheater please help me.
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (21 January 2010):
WTF? You don't want him to see anyone else but you should be allowed to? You want a 3some where only you are pleasured by 2 people but they have to settle only for you? And now, he can't even masturbate, something 100% of men do anyway? You need to move on and be by yourself for a while to think about your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010): Leave him. He obviously doesn't care about your feelings, you tell him not to do something, he does it anyways no matter the issue. Find someone better who will respect your boundaries and feelings!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 January 2010):
You both need to move on. You've been having a relationship with someone else, and he now feels rejected, so he's starting to talk to other people as well. This was bound to happen. You both need to move on.
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reader, LaPointe  +, writes (21 January 2010):
You're the cheater. It sounds like he's jerking off to porn. That's totally normal. Starting a relationship outside of your own, that's cheating. And it's unfair to him. If you get to see other girls, he should be allowed to see other girls, as well.
If this isn't a joke it's really sad.
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