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30-35,
anonymous
writes:im in love with my best friend ive been friends with her for three years we have even kiss a couple of times and our other friends say we should go out and she the only girl that makes me happy and i feel like she the one but we're both in relationships and we're both miserable but she been with him for three years doesn't see it the guy treats her like shit and she don't see it she tries so hard to be happy with him and i know i could be the one to make her happy. well last night i told her how i truly fell about her and she told me it just a crush and ill get over it but ive been like this forever and we should stop seeing each other for a while witch kill me i got pissed and told her to f**k off and f***in stupid to see what we could have and left her house got in my car and cried the hole way home and i apologized to her i tired to talk about the situation but she want to say with her boyfriend and for me to say with my girlfriend (whos a wicked bitch) and its tarring me up inside what should i do? Im so confused and wicked depressed and fell like i f***ed everything up
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (21 January 2010):
 For future reference, do not fall in love with best female friends. For women, they decide that you are a friend and would not move beyond that level. I don't know why you are putting so much energy into someone and it's not worth it. You are too emotional. You do not own her yet, she can date anybody, stop seeing you forever and whatever you are feeling you should keep it inside.
I see that you also want to control situations, but people's feelings cannot be changed. Look at the langauge here, you say she's a wicked bitch? People have wrong choices but you cannot judge them. In your eyes, she's treating you like shit too, and what does that make you?
You are confused?
I think people just fall for the wrong people all the time.
How can you be so sure that you can make her happy? To be truly happy people should look for healthy, cheerful people to begin with.
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