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*exiegeneva:)
writes:I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and I'm in love with him but he has anger issues..he lost his dad when he was 5yrs old. He says that's why he's so mad all the time but he takes his anger out on me. Few weeks ago I spilt like a drop of icee on him and he was like omg are u stupid and sayin I was an idiot. After that he kissed me and said he was really sorry..but yesturday I accidently spilt his apple juice and he yelled at me and told me to go buy him another one and I told him I didn't have any money on me and he said if we weren't at school he would hit me in the head with the bottle but he said he was just playin but he was yellin at me. My friends looked at him and looked at me with a sad face cuz they just knew I was about to cry..he don't understand why I get so sad when he yells at me. I try to talk to him about it but he just gets mad..he said he was going to go see a therpist or school counciler to help him with his anger issues. I love him so much and I don't want to let him go..I understand he's mad cuz he lost his dad but why does he have to take everything out on me? I lost someone I was close to and loved 2 years ago and I don't take it out on anyone. My friend said its just not his dad now, he's just being straight out mean, he says half the reason why he's mad is because of me and I was like okay well let's break up and he said he didn't want to cuz he loved me so much..he's really sweet most of the time but when he goes off on me for the smallest things, I cry and feel like giving up but I can't because you just don't give up on someone like this. I told him oneday he's gunna go off on me and when he looks back, I won't be there. We seriously need help with our relationship..I'm depressed but when I'm with him I'm the happiest..we just can't let each other go..please help me..
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reader, lexiegeneva:) +, writes (21 January 2010):
lexiegeneva:) is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe's really sweet thoughh..he just gets mad easilyy..I know he wouldn't hurt me physically
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reader, captnjohn +, writes (21 January 2010):
 If you don’t leave this dangerous person you will be one of those women you see on TV after have been beaten by their man for a long time. What in the world would make you want to stay around this person, he is a danger to you, and don’t say things to upset him he will take it out on you later. The thing the other person said about embarrassing him in public will only get you a beating.
Move on!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 January 2010):
You need to leave this guy for your own safety. To threaten to hit you with a bottle is serious. If he has anger problems, he must sort them out first, and he must do it himself and he must do it alone. No matter how much you love someone, when they're treating you this way, they're not good enough. You're just a puppet to him. And I warn you now then unless you do leave, you will end up in a hospital before long. Even your friends are worried about you. Leave him.
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