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writes:Ok, I have a HUGE problem. I am 29 yrs old and have been working for a construction company for a year. My boss is totally cool and since I have no family in the area has pretty much opened his home to me. We get along great both at work and off work and I totally respect him. A few months ago I met a girl at a fall fair and thought she was cool, we started hanging out and I kinda fell for her. Over christmas my boss invited me to spend the holidays with his family since I wouldn't be able to go for christmas and sure enough as soon as I walked in I see the girl I have been seeing, she is my boss's daughter. The girl he spends hours a day talking about. She lied to me and told me she was 27, she is only 22. I don't know what to do I completely love this girl, but if he finds out I'm banging his "little princess" the man will kill me. Please help.
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reader, dericktanning +, writes (22 January 2010):
dericktanning is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy biggest problem is I was dumb enough to engage in some casual guy talk at work one day and he was involved in the talk and one of my buddies had asked me about the girl I was dating and said a few things that lead to sex talk, and I said stuff that if I knew she was his daughter I would have never said. So now he teases me about "wild child sex life", soonce he puts 2 and 3 together and realizes the talks were about his daughter he will freak. I no now how stupid I was to even say anything but I didn't think I would end up falling for the girl. And she is much more to me then just some girl to have sex, I have total fallen for her :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2010): If she's just a girl you are banging then dont tell him and stop banging her. She's not worth your career.
If you are having a relationship with her you need to tell her to come with you and tell your boss. Don't tell him you are banging her. Just tell him you would like to date his daughter. As if you barely met her...
If he gives his approval...problem solved. If he doesn't you and your little princess decide where to go from there
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2010): Either breat it off with her, or tell him yourself right now. If he hears the truth about the situation (you didn't know it was HER at first, and she lied about her age) then he should be able to separate your actions from her deceptions.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (22 January 2010):
 He will probably find out either way so if you care about this girl and want to date her then do it and see if your boss likes you as a friend and daughters bf. I think he would respect you for being honest and may have trust in you that you will be good for his daughter (I'm sure you would be).
Be honest with him, if he finds out later on then there is almost no chance he'll accept the situation.
Good luck.
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reader, IHateWomanBeaters +, writes (22 January 2010):
 You didnt know.
tell him with her.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (21 January 2010):
You have a choice. Tell her that you and her need to tell him what's going on, or end it and move on. Either way he will probably end up finding out. So you need to make a decision on whether you want her in your life or not.
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