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writes:Ok so I dont really know where to startI am in love with my girlfriend, I really am. But lately I dont know...she seems to be going off me. And that put's me in a really bad mood which makes our conversations not as pleasent. We've never had an argument in the time we've gone out...but it feels like we're getting closer to one. I'm not even sure she loves me anymore...i'm an insecure guy but this is the one thing i've always known for certain. But lately it seems like her feelings for me are dying :( I'd do anything for her, and she knows it..I treat her with respect, kindness, love ...I dont know what more I can do to keep her.Maybe it's all in my head but i'm so scared to lose her because I know there's not another one out there. Any advice?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 January 2010):
Well quit being mad, that's just going to make things worse. Talk to her about how you feel and ask her to reassure you. You need to talk to her and really listen to her.
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reader, redsox29  +, writes (21 January 2010):
First of all, there is another one out there. There are about 100,000 other women out there that you would be very happy with.
I can relate, I was in love with this girl and did everything that I could to make her know just how much I loved her. Well it ended up her breaking up with me. I still miss her every single day, but I know there are other girls out there. There will be another woman that will come into my life and I will be able to look back and think "I can't believe that I thought she was the one". It may take some time, but it will come.
So talk to her, find out what the deal is and be open and honest. Maybe you and her won't work out but maybe you will find out it's all in your head. If she can't communicate with you, then you don't want that anyway. Communication is the absolute key to a successful relationship.
Just talk to her and tell her how you feel.
Good luck.
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