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*hanelle.x
writes:Ive some how been involved in a bit of trouble with this girl. Apparently I've been sending some slutty pictures around.[which I HAVEN'T]. She is the type of girl you dont want to know. She texted my mate to say "when i see her (me) she's gonna wish she weren't born" . The reason why people are scared of her because there's two gangs where I live. Whenever the girl wants something done she gets the gang members to harass others. They carry guns and knives! What shall I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 January 2010): Chanelle, lie low and keep out of her way, report it at least to a teacher you can trust and hopefully she will forget about you if your not on her radar. I wish i could be there in person to help you further but i know how it feels to have threats made to you and i know from personal experience keeping low and steering clear of who is giving you the hassle will hopefully give it time to die down. Take care hun, and i for one do care about what is happening to you X
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reader, Chanelle.x +, writes (22 January 2010):
Chanelle.x is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you for your advice. Its really helped because no one else will really listen. But i wont let her get to me xx
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reader, chloe. +, writes (22 January 2010):
Hi, this is a horrible situation to be in butIf I were you I'd tell your parents or a teacher Then they may be able to make sure your ok and get Home safely from school and and while your in schoolMake sure she stays away from you, you may thinkThis will make it worse but it won't Trust meHope it goes wellXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2010): Hey there, horrible situation that you are in and scary too for you. I definatly think you need to tell your parents for starters and see if they can get you to school and back safely. Also i think if you lay low for a while and steer clear of this girl then fingers crossed she will forget you, it doesnt sound like she sees you much if she is telling mutual friends she is after you. But tell your parents what has happened and they can decide what the next best course of action is. Failing that if you feel you cant confide in them then speak to an adult you trust, i.e relative or a teacher at school.
Hopefully it will all blow over for you soon, take care sweetheart and email me privatly if you want to go over your worries more, take care x
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reader, CandyCurves +, writes (21 January 2010):
 Can I ask you, why this girl is trying to start on you? If I was in your situation I would like to avoid her because shes a trouble maker and people like her like to cause problems because it makes them feel better. If you know that you havent done anything and that you're concious is guilt-free. You will continue being you and ignore her. If she had a brain .she will realise that people have been chatting and will just drop the whole thing.This works for me anyways. Well if you feel like you are in serious danger, I would listen to caringguy.Its important.
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reader, I am Othello +, writes (21 January 2010):
 Knives AND GUNS?! Girl, you could be in serious trouble, you need to tell someone who can take action - immediate action. I'm afraid all we agony aunts can really do for you is give verbal support, comfort and advice. You need to tell someone like your mum or dad, or a tutor! I know I trusts my tutor and parents...the most important thing to do (and I REALLY mean this) is to tell a superior, who you trust and you know could help you.
Hang in there, and keep out of trouble until you get a chance to tell someone. I know what it's like - a very similar thing happened to me once, except I told straight away and the thing was over before I knew it. You know - I had forgotten about it then I read this question of yours and thought "It's me! I can help!" (sounds cheesy right?) haha, anyway, best of luck, and I give you all my support.
Kate
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (21 January 2010):
Tell your parents immediately, and make sure a teacher knows at school If there is any threat made to you at all, call the police immediately.
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