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writes:love sucks.Ive really liked two different girls in the past 2 months, and both of them have hung out with me a lot, told me they really liked me, kissed me and everything looked promising and for one reason or another they slowly became distant and now we hardly talk.It seems whenever i open my heart for someone i get crushed, its getting really hard to trust girls now, im always afraid i am going to get hurt somehow. what should i do
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reader, kaytie-babey  +, writes (21 January 2010):
 The answer to your question..
Is like one girl at a time - and pay enough attention to the ONE girl you like.
I'm sorry but when you kiss two girls even when you're not dating either of them - They find out about each other, and are equally as hurt, and both possibly want nothing to do with you - because they thought you liked them a lot.. and it turns out they think when you want two girls all you want them for is the ONE thing.. and that puts girls off.
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reader, Miss King ! +, writes (21 January 2010):
 okay, its easy to understand why you feel that 'love sucks' when you feel that you really like someone and they don't feel the same way or don't continue to act in the way that you like it can be so crushing.
What I suggest is not to go looking for love. Simply focus on the most important person - YOU! When you are happy about yourself, your fitness, your dress sense, your job, your home, your family relationships etc you glow with happiness to those you meet in day to day life. Get into the things you are interested in, take up a new hobby for example. No-one wants to meet a depressed person with a 'love sucks' mentality. Take the time out to focus on you, and then when your filling your time with things that you really enjoy you are likely to meet people who share your interests and passions. For example if you hang out at the gym because you love fitness and take pride in your body and health, you are likely to meet people who feel the same. Don't stress about finding a partner, just concentrate on yourself for now. The rest will come in time!!!! Good Luck! xx
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